W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore-P2

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Snowman -

I only post to one other person on this site, after having been a regular here for a few years... I was directed to your thread recently.

I had my head in the sand for a few years, but, I will say this... Once I had the knowledge of infidelity, all bets were off. I immediately went in to plan "PROTECT MY KIDS AND ME".

With that said...

I have no idea if your wife has mental health issues, and quite frankly, if you read this site, WAY TOO MANY LBS's are quick to blame the WAS's actions on the possibility of this.

I think, plain and simple, that your W is a brat.

Couple one brat WAW, w/a LBH who has had very little courage to stand up to her, and...

You have a cheating wife, getting most everything she wants from her husband, while living the life she wants apart, and convenient child care coverage to do so... Oh, and did I mention the finances (from the marital funds, and/or credit available) to do all of this.

You need a solid basis of boundaries.

I just plain don't see any w/you.

I just took the time to read both of your threads. This is a LOT of bratty behavior, allowed by you, w/a lot financed by you.

Boundaries, and a PLAN for moving forward in YOUR way...