Hi everyone. Sorry, I haven't had much time to post lately. Between tax season (I do taxes), school and my D and now H. I dont have much time for anything right now. I have been on complete bed rest this week. I was in the hospital for two days at the beginning of the week. I go back to the dr for a followup. I am having complications from my surgery in December.

My H has been great. He has really stepped up with taking care of our D. He sent me a text the other day saying that he was madly in love with me and that he would do anything for me.

I have gotten upset a couple of times with him and I did approach him about what I was upset with. But I used the "I" statements now, where before I would say "you". This really helps. Because he doesnt feel like I am accusing him of anything.

But we are doing great.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)