morning hrm, I wanted to share with you that during this whole ordeal with MLC, God was the ONLY thing I had 100% trust in. Trusting God, and walking the path without any sort of idea of what's really going to happen has been my frustration. Im very impatient about things like this. But what I've discovered and continue to discover about myself, my marriage, and now my new life along the way is the lesson and plan for starters.
I too have been in the position of saying to myself "would this be repairable if he makes it through and see's the reality of what's happened?". Well for me....it all depends on many things.
I wanted to add my .02 worth about these MLCers. They are in a narcissist mode. Have you gone to the Hero's Spouse website? The info on there is amazing and very, very helpful and insightful. The creator of that site used to post here years ago. I can NOT believe she stood for her marriage, went through what she did, and they actually made it. Quite frankly I wouldn't have stood for it at all.
One thing that helped me to understand these personality changes were to read up on the person they were acting like now. I read up on narcissism, and there's some great stuff on it on the Hero's spouse too.
