Divorce....with a side of crazy...

[imthemom]

My L called yesterday and had to reschedule my appt for Monday to this morning. So I was told to bring the purposal that she mailed to me and we are going to go over the whole thing this a.m.

kind of nervouse... I spent last night getting a lot of paperwork in order and writing notes about everything so I wouldnt forget and feel like Im prepareing for battle...hate that but am keeping all emotion out of it like all earlier advice. Im looking at it like buisness...but was so hopeing that it wouldnt come to the nit picking that it has.

S15 was supose to go with STBX tues but called and told him he didnt feel good and wanted to stay home and maybe they could get together thurs night. called him again last night and cancelled again. If youve read previouse post he has been doing this for quite awhile and after months of forcing the issue and trying to talk to him about his and his Ds relationship Ive have been staying out of it...His C has told me that this is the only thing he has control over and I need to let him make decisions on when and if he is spending time with his D. There is a history of just not putting any effort into spending time with his son and S15 has gotten to the point were he just doesnt care anymore. He also is not happy about the fact that his D is pushing meeting his ow and I think he is trying to avoid that.

It tells me alot that after all these months of not spending time or being there as a father, that STBX is suddenly asking for triple the time with S15, even after setting up a visitation schedule that we included S15 in making, and then STBX flaking on more then half the time he is supose to have with him...but as soon as he found out it would effect his support amount he has suddenly managed to be available for every scheduled time and is really pushing the issue...so typical its embarrassing ..I have had experience with this before and have documented everything...but I hate that it has come to that...