Brian,

I don't mean to make light of your concern. I get it.

But the thing is, I've posted thousands of times here, literally. And my posts tend to be long as it is. SO, there is an "economy of words" I am trying to use. Often by quoting another post that I've marked or copied b/c it struck me as being on point for many. That way I can say something of use to someone in need, quickly.

But you know what? I also find that 3/4 of the folks here need a fairly "standard" response at the start...


it's triage really. AND don't forget the "scripted" predictability of many WASs that the newbie won't know.

So it can make sense to give out a "recipe" for starting out, as the foundation for MOST DBing is the same.

Later on as we find their own idiosyncrasies I know I try to target their needs.

But as it is, I take too long with my posts. It's like a part time job for me. (Not complaining, just saying).

So I'm not sure what the alternative is, other than not answering or answering a much lower number of people.

Do you have a suggestion?


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Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
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