I'm a newbie to this, my H is having mlc and he told me that he doesn't love me anymore and he wants a divorce. We've been married for 25 years with 2 children, D is 22 and S is 17. He's having an emotional affair with a married C. They are talking on the phone for hours everyday and it's been going on for the last 8 months. When I confronted him, he became very angry and very protective of her. At the beginning my H told me that they are related so they are only friends, then later they are more than friends and now he told me that he loves her and he doesn't love me anymore.
I'm so confused, don't know what to do and definitely DO NOT WANT A DIVORCE!!! Help! Open suggestions.