Just left counselors office. Why is it that I always leave her office feeling worse than when I go in?
b/c she was not solution based...she was either rehashing the problems or staring at what your h SAYS he wants now...
so she's interpreting it for you INSTEAD of helping you navigate through it.
She basically told me to hang my marriage on the shelf and to go on and accept the divorce and be thankful he is being so generous.
Really? So is she also a divorce L?
She said I should accept the fact that he is no longer in love with me and try to find someone who loves me totally. has she met your h? Does she know him well? How long have you been seeing her and "working" on the marriage?
This has just knocked me down about three steps. I think I should find a new counselor.
yes please find a new mc
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
yes please 
