I also think your wife MAY have real medical problems but you are quite vague about them. Does she have a definite diagnosis?
Diagnosed with Depressive disorder, anxiety, insomnia/nonorganic sleep disorder. Complaints of Sleep problems, mood swings, joint pain, episodic numbness and weakness concerning for demyelinating disease, that^^^^ is huge. It's not some vague "fatigue" syndrome. It could be Parkinson's or ALS, or something not yet diagnosed. Sounds horrible & terrifying.
lightheartedness, fatigue, weight loss, numbness and tingling. Had had episodes of entire body going numb. Had lots of blood tests and MRI. MS and Lupus ruled out.
If she doesn't take Ambien I will here her up at 3am doing stuff. She sleeps better in day. She has told me she is "heavily" medicated and that is how she dealing with pending separation/divorce. I only know of her taking cymbalta and ambien now. Wellbutrin, paxil, xanax in past. I think several different types after wellbutrin was stopped. ---- She is noticably unstable (although I don't tell her I think this), she has left notes around house accusing me tracking her, bugging phone, and calling her bosses (non-true).
first, please address the other questions I posed in those lengthy posts.
Second, You are posting here, she is not.
You are the only person we can advise. You cannot change her.
You are the only person you have any control over. Learn to see this as empowering.
So what are YOU doing for your growth? What are your GAL and 180s?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016