Keeping the Kids Out of It

[PrincessP]

I’m on DB a lot today – sometimes I get bogged down at work and don’t always have the time to write a thoughtful post. I still peruse the other forums for my own research. Is there an example, preferably a success story or even some positive news, about a DBer who came back from/coming back from being the LSD spouse and working on personality flaws? I feel that many of the anecdotes tend to hone in on one major problem/issue and not have more about the complexity of the situations. My H told me a lot of things he could not tolerate from me anymore when he left.

I am trying to be more outgoing, positive, attractive (in physical upkeep), and convey a level of sexuality. I like it, and am feeling more (on many levels) but sadly there is no one to share those feelings or sensations with.