OK, so if you snoop and you find out something bad. How will you feel? Pretty shyty I bet...
Right now you already feel shyty. She will do what she is going to do no matter what.
What if you detach now and just tell yourself "whatever?" Let her do her thing and you get your life together and take care of yourself. I know, easier said than done.
Doubt this? Go check out the archive of success stories. Snooping only prolonged the possibility any potential reconciliation. If not, at least you took the high road.
Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13
