PrincessP, This is my first post. I'm in a very similar situation. My husband let me know there was someone else (actually he actually texted me a mssg meant for her) on February 7, and moved out February 15. I have no idea where he is, all I know is that he is somewhere in NYC. He left me and our S4 and seems to have no feelings of regret or guilt or anything. He said he wants to go where the wind takes him and is tired of paying bills. Very MLC. And I might add that we both work full time, though while I love my job he hates his (something that bothers him). He's had depression problems for a long time, but this time it is all MY fault. Like he wants to punish me, but in reality the one who gets punished the most is our son. When I cry it is really on behalf of my son (and I would NEVER cry in front of H). I've been DBing for perhaps 3 weeks, seriously for the past week following a telephone consultation. I have moments when I feel I am going insane (our finances aren't the best), moments when I am hopeful, and moments when I wonder if I can ever forgive him. I'm from Europe and am seriously thinking about moving home w my child. Oh, I fear this is going to take a LOOONG time.
evas start your own thread so we can give you your own advice
