It was such a great thread and even had an MLCer (Wonka) on it talking about his own experience.
Wonka is a woman!
Originally Posted By: needgrace
I so wish my wife and I did not have to talk finances now because it can be so adversarial but she is pushing to get it done ASAP. Any hints to handle the talk of splitting things/$ wisely? I find myself feeling sorry for her and wanting to give her more, so I have not been making decisions while she is here, telling her I will think about things and get back to her. I really want to do this fairly and with integrity but am finding that our idea of fair is not similar. I have also bounced things off of some good financial minds to check myself.
Stand up for yourself and don't let her push you around. If you found my threads on MLC then be sure to do all the homework on the one that I posted this morning. That should keep you busy while your waiting for modration to end.
