For the ladies in DB, have you read "Getting Through To the Man You Love: The No-Nonsense, No-Nagging Guide for Women" by Michele? Is it helpful to read if the W is the LBS?
M: 39, H: 38 D: 4 Together: 19 Y Married: 9 Y Bomb #1: 11/04/11 (5 days b/f anniversary) Bomb #2 and H left: 01/03/12 (day b/f my bday) OW: confirmed, they live together already