WAW roomate is telling me she is moving out..

[hangten]

KD...I'm too available. I feel that way too; Same sh!t, different day. I do see improvements in the way we are communicating.

After the kids are in the bed I go downstairs to unwind like I do every night. I like to watch a movie or TV alone in peace. Well my w has from the beginning of the week come downstairs to talk with me. She never sits on the couch with me. My w is too proud she sits on the arm of the couch.My w usually talks to be about logistics about where the kids will be. Anyways my w has started to tell me on Monday that she wants to sell the house and that I have to agree with her. Told my w that I do not want to sell the house. I want to keep a stable environment for the kids. My w stated that I am dragging my feet. I told my w if she does not feel comfortable in the house she can leave. I do want you to stay, but not as an adversary. My w was a bit dejected on Monday.

Monday my w tells me that she will be staying out all night with her friends on March 30th. I told her have fun please let the kids know what your plans are for that night. I'm pretty sure the OM will be spending the night with her. I have to get that thought out of my head. Still bothers me that she will not care for the kids and how they feel. yet I will be waking up to questions on that morning where is mom.

On Tuesday night I let my w know that I want to go away on vacation. I want to take my kids. I even asked my w if she wanted to come. I just think it would be a good escape for the kids and us. My w is mad that I would want to take my kids out of the country. I did not say this to fight. I have told my w that I have booked time off in april I want to go away, ideally with my kids. If you want to come , you are invited. My w is angry , she said I should never had kids with you. to I don't trust you with my kids. Yet my w is never home I am always with the kids. I responded to my wife's Angry feelings. I told my w can you remember ever saying anything nice to me in the last 2 months. I waited for her to respond. It took a good 3 mins. My w responded with I have told you are better with the kids. I told my w that I don't want to talk anymore. Can we pick this up on another day? I told her that I don't like the tone my w is using with me. We both went to bed.

My w was texting me a lot on Wednesday. random chatter. I was cordial and nice tried to share a few stories let her control the conversation flow and I leave to saw I have to go to a meeting.


Last night my comes down to talk with me again. My w seemed to have a bee in her bonnet. I told her that I did not feel like having a conversation tonight. I told my w that I was upset with the way the conversation went the other night. I told my w that we can schedule it for another night. My w left all in a huff. I just didn't feel like getting insulted or told I'm worthless anymore. I want my w and I to talk respectfully to each other. I know how I speak to her. I want the same respect. My w doesn't respect me hence why March 30 she will be spending it with the OM.