Yes Rick, I have read them and have threm printed and posted in three diffent places. When she would pull me back in I would basically start doing my own thing. Alhtough It's probably too little too late, All of these steps will be in my behavior, because I am not going to be reaching out or responding to her about anything, except the car transaction and remaining items.

I tried for force her hand on Sunday which was a mistake. But given her gall of coming out saying that she is seeing the same dolt she had the affair with TO THIS DAY I simply cannot tolerate that behavior. At some point a man has to maintain a shred of his own dignity.

I guess my behavior going forward can be consider real divorce busting, but the reason it is that way is because I don't care anymore.

My life will be taking on a level of simplicity that it hasn't had since before 2004. I'm starting to think of where my first trip will be, I have no kids so I can come and go as I please. I am bound and determined to make three people happy from this day forward, me, myself, and I, hopefully doing this many times via acts of service to others.


me 38
W 30
T 3
M in 05/2010
Separated 08/2011
Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8
I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5
Anxiously waiting on the judge!