I agree you sound like you did a great job handling yourself.
So my only add is, while you remain distant because it is necessary for you AND your H, observe for physically destructive, depression behaviours...
If he crashes... if he is going to emotionally crash... it might be good/healthy for him... so long as he doesn't actually hurt himself in the process...
You don't need to get caught up and be all co-D, just for the sake of your kids, in case...
KWIM?
Thanks KD, I do know exactly where you are coming from. He is not on any AD. In fact, he is self medicating and was quite drunk last night while crying, although he remembered everything this morning.
I was slightly concerned for his safety at one point last night. I was in the house and heard a loud bang out back, but it turns out it was just the door slamming too hard. I wasn't sure what it was and went to check on him.
I agree, making sure things are safe for the kids is my top priority.
