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Re: Suddenly Separated in VA -- Part 2 RoRoinMD #2232109 03/20/12 06:14 PM
Joined: Jan 2012 Posts: 158 Washington DC M mimivac OP Member
OP mimivac Member M Joined: Jan 2012 Posts: 158 Washington DC	Thanks, guys! Blood work and tumor markers are normal and physical exam yielded no lump or bumps! I am 3.5 years out of diagnosis now and for my type of cancer this is great news. Mimi M:37; H:37; M:10 years;T:13 years;no kids. Bomb ("I love you, but don't feel things for you I should":1/08/12 Separated (H living with various friends:1/18/12 Separated (H rented his own apartment:3/4/12

Re: Suddenly Separated in VA -- Part 2 mimivac #2232114 03/20/12 06:31 PM
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needgrace Member N Joined: Mar 2012 Posts: 1,352	So happy to hear about your good health news! Also, wanted you to know that I feel inspired by your posts. Thank you for your honesty and openness about ll the feelings that come with this strange journey! Me:51 W:41 T:10 Domestic partners and M:7 Bomb:7/11 S:10/11 much back and forth W decides to move cross country: 2/12 Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13

Re: Suddenly Separated in VA -- Part 2 mimivac #2232117 03/20/12 06:43 PM
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labug Member L Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert	^^^^like this news a lot! Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13 Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss

Re: Suddenly Separated in VA -- Part 2 labug #2232596 03/22/12 01:59 PM
Joined: Jan 2012 Posts: 158 Washington DC M mimivac OP Member
OP mimivac Member M Joined: Jan 2012 Posts: 158 Washington DC	Thank you so much for the good wishes! I am very relieved at my health news and want to let that joy help me through this sitch. Well, right now I am feeling an even more urgent need to distance myself and detach. H is still as confused as ever about our m and doesn't have much hope for it. It is looking as bleak as ever for us, and I find myself alternately OK with getting on with things without him, and horribly angry at how he has blown up our life. What I AM getting good at is staying dignified and calm in his presence -- even if I tear down all the pictures of him after he leaves (something I did on Wednesday night). I am still happy in my GAL activities. They have really saved my life. It's a strange thing, but I can have happiness and heartache at the same time. I think this is progress, because before it was just heartache. I feel a deep pain to think of him just disappearing from my life and floating off into the ether. I also feel a great excitement about the independent life I am building and the person I am becoming through this. I have taken the day off work today and plan to clean my house, continue with my fashion books and closet clearing. Needing to make more room in my life for what I want out of it. Mimi M:37; H:37; M:10 years;T:13 years;no kids. Bomb ("I love you, but don't feel things for you I should":1/08/12 Separated (H living with various friends:1/18/12 Separated (H rented his own apartment:3/4/12

Re: Suddenly Separated in VA -- Part 2 mimivac #2232598 03/22/12 02:09 PM
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labug Member L Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert	Yes! Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13 Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss

Re: Suddenly Separated in VA -- Part 2 labug #2233915 03/28/12 01:24 PM
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labug Member L Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert	What's up, Mimi? Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13 Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss

Re: Suddenly Separated in VA -- Part 2 labug #2233979 03/28/12 04:41 PM
Joined: Jan 2012 Posts: 871 R RoRoinMD Member
RoRoinMD Member R Joined: Jan 2012 Posts: 871	Hey Mimi! Hope all is well. Are you somewhere posing, looking at your great skin in a mirror? ;-) Me:37 H:GONE Happy and loving life.

Re: Suddenly Separated in VA -- Part 2 RoRoinMD #2240772 04/25/12 10:13 PM
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RoRoinMD Member R Joined: Jan 2012 Posts: 871	Mimi, come out, come out wherever you are! Hope you're okay! Me:37 H:GONE Happy and loving life.

Re: Suddenly Separated in VA -- Part 2 RoRoinMD #2240853 04/26/12 03:46 AM
Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert L labug Member
labug Member L Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert	I've been wondering about you, too. Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13 Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss

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