I also think your wife MAY have real medical problems but you are quite vague about them. Does she have a definite diagnosis?
Diagnosed with Depressive disorder, anxiety, insomnia/nonorganic sleep disorder. Complaints of Sleep problems, mood swings, joint pain, episodic numbness and weakness concerning for demyelinating disease, lightheartedness, fatigue, weight loss, numbness and tingling. Had had episodes of entire body going numb. Had lots of blood tests and MRI. MS and Lupus ruled out. If she doesn't take Ambien I will here her up at 3am doing stuff. She sleeps better in day. She has told me she is "heavily" medicated and that is how she dealing with pending separation/divorce. I only know of her taking cymbalta and ambien now. Wellbutrin, paxil, xanax in past. I think several different types after wellbutrin was stopped.
As far was our discussions about her meds, I mentioned once that I thought the changed around oct/nov last year (I know she went off a unknown anti-depressant and starting taking cymbalta at that time). I have not mentioned it except for then. I sent one text to her sister "I'm concerned about xxxx, and would like to know if there is anything I can do to make situation better for her. Please give me a call".
She is noticably unstable (although I don't tell her I think this), she has left notes around house accusing me tracking her, bugging phone, and calling her bosses (non-true).
