We went to MC the first three months, but then the MC said that my H should seek IC counseling because the MC said that we had worked on most of our marital issues. I do think that we should have returned to MC last year, but things seemed a lot better at times. I was happy with him and knew he was making changes.
He started calling me more at work/in the morning, texting me on his breaks at work. We went on more vacations/trips together and just really tried to enjoy each other. He was spending more time at home and less time with work friends (who I didn't particular like). We could have definitely worked on our communication and sharing of feelings, because that is where we are now. Neither one of us is very good at sharing our feelings...we tend to keep things inside and then it blows. We don't fight...we just don't know how to articulate how we are really feeling.
I truly believe we can get back what we have lost with more communication and spending loving time with each other, but he's so distant now that I don't see how this could possibly happen in a way. It's just a mess and more than anything, I want him home.
I'm not sure what to do about setting up our next date, because I am mad that he couldn't take 20 minutes out of his night last night to grab ice cream. I just don't understand his distance with life, in general.
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
