what do you think it would take for you to make the move?
If she still has contact w/OM, along with NO work on the marriage,
I have to wonder how much worse it would have to get before you'd act.
I don't mean to push you at ALL...but am hoping to help you clarify and maybe improve your situation...
If it were going to get better by "leaving it alone" and "not discussing it" then by now it would have resolved.
I find few, if any, conflicts like this just fade away...you have to resolve it Or it worsens.
If standing now means that your kids see you treated this way for that much longer and the end result is the same (she goes) then all you've done is hurt your legal case (probably owe her more for a longer marriage)
and exposed your kids to a lousy marital situation.
Do you have daughters seeing how your w treats a man? What are they learning about men? What would you tell them if they treated their h's the way your w is treating you?
Do you have sons who see the situation?
What would you tell your SON to do, & for how long, if he came to you with this very problem?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
