Together Since We Were 15...Now Piecing

[Jenna333]

I think it's honestly just stress. I'm still getting used to being busy all the time, and he's struggling in his calculus class (again) and is going to drop it. It's stress about other things. We tend to just have our emotions always running on high, and we snap easily.

It just really hurt that after I left for school and called him to apologize for my part in the fight and to ask him how I can make him feel more loved, he acted in an immature manner when it was my turn to talk about my feelings. I told him that I feel loved when he helps out around the home. He said, "So you want me to be a slave?" My jaw just dropped. I did not say or mean that at all. He was just rude. And for him to tell me to treat him better while he's acting like that?!

What started the fight was when he jumped to a conclusion and started fighting with me and I called him a selfish a-hole. I know I shouldn't have done that. I apologized for it. That's what he meant when he said I need to treat him better. I tend to lose my cool during fights and name call. I know it's not respectful or acceptable. He said that's all I need to improve on. I feel like he needs to mature! Quit making me feel like he doesn't care about my feelings He says he does. I'm starting to really doubt it.