So sorry, Just figired out how to find this post. I thought no one had replyed. Thank you so much for all you kind words and support. Crimson, Thanks for the 37 steps. I can clearly see where I am making mistakes. Time to make some more changes
I do have a question though, # 3 3. Do not point out good points in marriage or try to get him/her to read marriage books, look at your M pictures, etc. Especially, do not get him/her to read the DB/DR book. That is for you only!
H does not have any pictures of the kids and I. We always stored them on our computer (Well now mine) and had plans to develop them and put them into albums but never did. H birthday is in a few weeks and my daughter and I have been working on a album collection since right after x/mas to give to him. It took 10 albums and ALOT of money a hard work but it done and ready to give him as of last weekend. It has mainly pictures of the kids and birthdays and xmas's. But it does have a few pictures of our hometown as well as pictures of H and I back in the day together when we first met. It's literally ALL our pictures. EXCEPT our wedding pictures. I did not include those. Do you think this would still be okay? I think my daughter would be devistated if we didn't give it all to him. Shes so excited about it.
Also, he has asked me for the case # for our divorce because he "Lost" his paperwork. He needs it to turn in his final set of paperwork. I told him I'd have to look for it.. but I have it. Should I just give it to him knowing he's ready to just sign? Or make it hard on him and make him ask me for it again?
