Talked with a L today who was very helpful and very informative. She highly suggested working out a deal for custody first since of course the kids are the most important detail to work out. Let me tell you the thought of not seeing my kids on a daily basis is enough to make me go postal. I do want primary placement that is my biggest concern.
Yes my state does have maintenance but if he is willing to take on all the marital debt and agree to my terms I won't be too concerned with seeking maintenance. This does give me a bit of power I think. I have felt so helpless in this entire situation that it feels good to have a say.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
