He just texted me back saying he had a bad day, didn't sleep well, and counseling for him today was crap, so he was going to go home after class and sleep. I responded with "I'm sorry you had a bad day and counseling did not go well. Rain check sounds good. Let me know when you're free for ice cream or our next date." I guess the ball is in his court again...
As for his issues with me, the only things he has come up with in DB coaching is that he didn't feel appreciated this past year when he was trying to make things up to me for breaking my trust a year and a half ago. (He did the same thing where he blew up about life and wanted out of everything. Three months after the blow up, he said it was a form of suicide and he knew I was the one and that he needed to look at the positives in his life.) He did try to gain my trust back and show me he loved me, but he said that he felt like it wasn't enough for me and that we, as a couple, did not make enough progress.
He also said that I don't get along with his family as much, which is not completely true. I've had issues with his mom, but we have been working on those. Other than that, he has written in a letter to take to his counselor and has stated in DB coaching that he has a near perfect/great wife, but his feelings just aren't there anymore. It's sooo confusing! Because in just November, he wrote an email to me telling me how wonderful I am and how I'm the one and that he wants to talk about the future more...Then it went downhill after the New Year when I said I wasn't completely happy that I didn't fully trust him that he was in this relationship for the long haul. The reason I felt this way was because he never truly found out why this happened a year and a half ago...
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
