remember what my DB coach said"

Do NOT fuel his negative images of you. He uses those to justify his choice to leave.

Counter those negative images with positives. So Calm, warm interactions w/the kids...no yelling, no berating, etc.

Helping your h when he asks...and whatever else he complained of...

undermine those negatives...


and lose the anger, at least in front of him. It does NOT help your cause.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change