Ever since I had the conversation with him on Sunday evening he has been more open with me. More friendly. So I guess in a way our relationship has improved. Although for some reason he feels the need to help me look for places to live, which makes me feel like he is pushing me out. And it hurts. I think perhaps he is doing it out of guilt. It is hard to hide my real emotions from screaming out. It is hard to act "as if" when you have just been punched in the gut.
tell him 1) you are still in shock about things and don't want to feel rushed, although you assume he means well, it's not helping
and
2) YOU will find a place yourself as you adjust to your new life...
agree to nothing. I suspect if you have 2 kids, the formula is 25% CS in most states. Ask the L you hire. Don't know what effect his prior child has or if he's a good father to that child.
Also don't know if alimony is allowed in your state either.
hang in there and please keep posting!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
