Stay busy. That will be the best thing for you right now. These are the times that you're going to want to ask questions, like why don't you want to go out with me? Why don't you respond? It is his way of creating space. Give him what he needs right now.
I'm glad you're going on vacation. What a great way to go out and try new things. However, you may want to be careful about venting to mutual friends while you're there just for the sake of information getting back to your H. It may be a great way to show people that you're doing ok and your life continues. Messages may be relayed back to your H that you're doing really well. Which can cause much intrigue on your H's side of things.
Your sitch is hard because I don't know that I really know what the things are that your H is having a hard time with YOU. It seems like his issues are coming from within him. Maybe you could elaborate on that more... or maybe you don't even really know yet... LOL!
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
