Gosh feels totally like what I want to say to my h. But all the verbage would be lost on him since he can only think about what he wants.
Your challenge may be better served waiting him out to see what he does. Unless of course you have really had enough....then I'd advise you to file to get the child support you need.
Don't give in to reacting. Even if you don't want the m, pushing him to react may cause him to do something you'll regret.
