I know this is true... but the reality is unless something changes soon that is all the time to be had. She wants to be out like yesterday. I know she will take the kids. If she takes the kids I will be court the next day suing her for custody. I think it will be beyond repair at that point. She has the notion that I will use custody as a tool to keep her, when I really just have to do what is the best interest of the children. If I let her go with the kids I hurt my custody case.
All the advise is awesome by the way, if she would move out and split kids it would be fine. But she hired an attorney, so it forces the situation, you have a settlement agreement (she is not going to like anything I agree to), or she moves out w kids and I have to go after a at-fault divorce and custody. Otherwise I think she would get strait mentally over time and give us a chance.
