The #1 advice I got, by the way, was "In every situation, don't worry about what your wife will think or how she will react, or anyone else for that matter. Instead, simply DO THE RIGHT THING. Ask yourself 'What is The Right Thing to Do in this situation? What is the thing that God Himself would tell me to do, if He were standing right in front of me right now?' " Starsky
Autumn... I think I told you this on the phone, but... I have PAGES of times when I just plain did the RIGHT THING, and didn't worry about his reaction/the other person/situations reaction would be...
Checks show up out of nowhere! The right house was listed at the right time! I earned a commission in JUST THE RIGHT AMOUNT to cover something I was in angst about! My friend pitched in w/an offer to handle boys (when I felt uncomfortable w/them being w/Dad) and didn't even know what she was offering!
Literally goes on and on and on...
Remember those pieces of advice!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
