I found out from W that D1 has to have adnoids taken out and tubes cleaned out. Problem is that the surgery will be done on my 1st day of work at my new job.
I finally had to tell W about new job because it will affect D1's insurance for the better if it was scheduled after April 2.
W then flipped out because she was not informed of my changing jobs, not that it would have affected her in any way but for the better. I figured it was none of her business as we no longer live together and it will not affect my end of the parenting time with D1.
Problem is now that W moved surgery up to March 30, which is my last day at work and has really bad insurance with a $5000 deductible. Which means that the whole surgery will probably be out of pocket, if she does not switch it back. I am currently trying to get a hold of the benefits person at new job to ensure that insurance kicks in the 1st day.
I knew that W would probably be angry about me getting a new job, but there is no way I could have seen this surgery comming a month ago when I accepted the job.
The other problem is that D1 will have to be out of daycare for at least a week, which means that W will burn up PTO and I need to find a way to get time off to care for D1, on the very same week I start employment!
If W is angry now, wait until she hears that I am moving next week! To be continued.....
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12
