Divorce....with a side of crazy...

[mishka422]

Deep slow breaths. Don't freak out. He has no real leg to stand on. State formulas are there to protect everyone. Use them. Just because OT isn't 'guaranteed' doesn't exclude it entirely from the formula. You can prove from tax records the consistency of it. He can always go back and file for adjusted CS if he loses his OT completely but it's nearly impossible to get a judgment for increase after the fact.

You said you have documented his time (or lack thereof) with S15 right? Use it. It stinks to have to do that but it's business now, not personal. It's unfortunate the your son will have to speak to the judge but it's best that his wishes are known and taken into consideration. My son was 13 when his dad left and 14 when the D was finalized. At that point in my state he was able to tell the judge where he wanted to be and he didn't want to be with his dad at his place with the broom. Period. His dad didn't like that very much but it was what he created. He has since told me that was a catalyst for the end of his R with her. He wanted his son more than her. WOW! Eye opener huh?