Look, do the math. consistent change + sufficient time = change she can believe in.
As I said, I am really pouring myself into my kids. Yesterday, after I got home from work I was exhausted, but I went out and played football with my boys. I think I've always been a pretty good father, but I've always been okay with pretty good in a lot of things...
I've been going to recovery meetings and really working against porn. As far as she goes, I'm not advertising, but she knows what's up. I'm not doing this to convince anyone, I'm doing it for me and my kids. And for any woman in my life; I know it has devastated W. But as far as her believing, that's not going to happen for a LOONG time.
Thank you for all of your help, DBers. I will try to paint my sitch for you to help you help me (and to try to understand it and even just see it).
As far as coaching, I definitely will, but we are pretty broke for now. Maybe next week, when I get paid. I've been unemployed for a while (contributing factor?) and my first paycheck got a hold placed on it (that we had already written checks on) so we are financially hurting right now.
