Only you know when that is happening. It seems to me you are watching your W too much and putting too much stock in little signs of "friendship" that may or may not mean anything with regards to where she is or is thinking of going.
IF, and WHEN you see sign of her owning her own actions in the demise of your M
Then I would consider her CONSISTENT actions in that direction.
I have seen nothing from her that shows me she desires to reconcile your M or consider her own part in what's happening to your M.
Until then Pulp. Protect yourself and make decisions that are best for YOU.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
