just keep working through this, dont give in to frustration. you're being over stressed with the move and its being displayed in your actions, thoughts, and health.

and everything is exhausting. it will always be exhausting, regardless of who its with. thats life. get used to it.

of course that means you have to work to keep the relationship worth being exhausted over.

he does not have to give you the control, dont assume its a bad thing. it may simply mean that he also needs to control something, even something as mundane as the phone.

everyone needs to feel in control of something, its a way to feel worth. and during the move, he may need to feel power over something.

you have to find a healthy balance between dealing with real issues and what issues can wait. sunday to thursday is not that long. OR, were you just trying to find/make a reason to get the pin? and yes, i've done that too.

just keep moving forward. dont be overwhelmed with the small stuff, but at the same time, protect yourself.

"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".