The Climb - Thread #6

[Denver_2010]

No offense 25. I know. I also agree with everything that you just said. Navy's in a very tough spot right now.

I can only hope/pray that she might move towards you IF she feared losing you[/b], maybe to some OW who would see you AND your kids in a loving way, and replace your w as the source of nurturing in the family...

b/c for awhile now, your w has been pretty self centered, and miserable oftenat least when you describe her...

So maybe that's what it would take for her to get off her butt and be in charge of her own life/happiness

and END the longest marital BLAME GAME I've seen in a long time...fearing the loss of you to OW....

IF you have one more round in you for DBing, that's all I can offer you. Fake Date or something...

if she confronts about it, you can "hypothecate" that in the event you were to date,

you want to reassure her that you'd "never have the kids meet OW... unless it was serious"

That's where my money would be. Be ready for A LOT more yelling from you W though Navy. Mine blew me up in August for this! But it wasn't more than a month afterwards before she was telling me that she hadn't given up on our M. So I actually think that what I did had a huge positive effect even if it was a bit misguided.