Hi, so surprised to hear from you! I get the tsunamis thing. Birch Bay is so shallow and we are blocked by Vancouver Island. Plus we are up high enough, did check with realtor before we bought. I thought of you driving by Birch Bay too!
My plan is to go along with this because I can't control h. This is going forward whether I like it or not. I did set up an appt. for an attorney to go over everything before final.
My plan for me is to get on with my life, be a better me, and maintain a friendship with h. Going to keep db'ing for me, maybe in 17 months (17 years m.) if we have enough contact, maybe he will see the woman he fell in love with. If not, I will be ok. Right now just the process of db gives me hope while dealing with this horrible new thing I'm going through.
I certainly feel a kinship with you as well! I won't be in Birch Bay much longer. But I will be moving to B'ham, by Whatcom CC. Maybe I'll find a fun cont. ed class! After I turn 60 I can audit classes at WWU for $10 a credit. Love art history.
So that's pretty much where I'm at. H. done, but I'm not, yet. Have a great time, weather is looking up. Really glad you have wifi!