I just spent another Tuesday at the house making dinner, being with kids, cleaning up, with just a little chatting between W and I. No drama. No expectations.

Maybe I really am getting the gift of time. More days like this would be just fine.

It is sad to think that if I put half the effort into being a husband before that I put into being a person she'd be a fool to leave now... I wouldn't be here. It's so easy to take your life for granted and assume marriage is forever.


- All for the kids -
Me:34, W:35
M:7, T:13
S6, D3 + my D15 from previous marriage
July 2011 "I think I need a separation"
W filed D September
Currently living apart - she has the house, I rent a room