Forgot to add that a part of me thinks it would be good to annoy OW by having H come over to our house before 7am each day, and also each afternoon.
Can't be conducive to the building of a happy, stable relationship.
However, given that he doesn't stay very long even when he does the pick-up and drop-off ( i.e. he disappears for the 25-min gap between delivering D16 to her school and coming back to get S13 to take him to his school. I think he goes back to OW's house in between).
And before anyone tells me to "just do whatever is best for me"....
I have to say that I've thought about this, and I just don't know any more. I want to do what's going to be best for getting my M back on track.
