Hi Wendy, Im with Trusting on the Acceptance quote. It's good for us, but also it does make them more frustrated if we go with their flow.
You know what I thought was so crazy is that when I started to treat our situation like the DIVORCE he was wanting so badly, that's when my stbx got VERY ANGRY.
All the sudden I was accused of changing the rules, saying one thing, doing the other, pitting the children against him, you name it, I got it.
Beware this may happen, but don't let it stop you. There are two in a marriage and you BOTH have rights! Stand up for your rights and priveledges you can come away with in the event of a divorce and selling the house and don't ever back down. Damn it girl, YOU EARNED IT!
