if you have been served and he's "negotiating" with you at home, please sign NOTHING and see a L asap.
Like I said, you need DO nothing. But you need information from a lawyer there. it's clear you believe he's having an affair, and this MAY be relevant to the L.
It may be part of why his offer to you SEEMS "generous". Keep what you know to yourself for now.
See a L and find out your rights so you will make choices based on actual fact and not "hoping" that the support he says he'll send is enough...
and what happens after they leave the house? You are on your own? Are you staying at home with them now?
May I assume there's a disparity in income between what he earns and what you earn?
20k per year for CS may sound great. I am not sure it is. Don't know his income level and I would
bet a lot that he's looked into the finances of this already. So he is at an advantage.
Why'd his first m end? Just curious...and I am confused about what his problems are that you are referring to.
Is he getting "help" for something or not?
Keep posting and if you can, keep it in one place b/c I feel I'm missing pieces.
But this is NOT hopeless. Far from it!
Have you gotten the Div Remedy book yet?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
