Your continuing ultramarathon theme is a good reminder. While we communicate a few times a week despite her being out of state now, and it's pretty friendly, I still feel like my wife is sprinting toward divorce. She occasionally mentions that she needs to have the divorce paperwork notarized and things like that (which, to be honest, I could do without being reminded of, but what can ya do...)
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12