Your continuing ultramarathon theme is a good reminder. While we communicate a few times a week despite her being out of state now, and it's pretty friendly, I still feel like my wife is sprinting toward divorce. She occasionally mentions that she needs to have the divorce paperwork notarized and things like that (which, to be honest, I could do without being reminded of, but what can ya do...)


Me: 36
Her: 35
Together 7/09
Married 8/7/10
Separate rooms since at least April 11
"I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11
She moves out of state/files 2/7/12
Dissolution final 5/12