Not ignoring your advice (I will consult a lawyer) just wanted to share my current crystal-ball peerings: I think she is thinking about moving out next month, then following the school year to abscond with the kids, then stay in new state for 6 months to establish residency and file for divorce there. This certainly gives me time. I think that I broke her idea that she can get a quick and easy divorce done and then move in three months. Reality is, D is a long process anywhere! She is also stating an intention to be a good girl and reel in the PA to an EA (obviously not her phrasing) until she is no longer married to me. No way that can last. She's pretty stubborn, but I doubt her resolve on this. And if she can, no way that OM would wait. Have I told this board, yet, that he already cheated on her? WAW thinking justified it in that she had cheated on him first -- with me! She's crazy.
