In fact I think it's our duty to take charge of it. Life is short. Do what it takes to be happy. Deep down, you know what that means.
I think Your h does not see you as an option in his future.
But Your son really needs to see you happy. You want to be happy.
So Go be happy.
& God bless
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016