I know it's asking a lot, but is there anyone on here who has been cheated on PA and managed to get their M back on track? I could really use some motivation right now.

I really need to get a grip on my feelings, I don't want to blow my detaching & discuss anything with W. I understand that my W will do whatever she is going to do right now & in her eyes we are no longer together. I just worry that the damage is going to be too much for me to overcome on my own.

I need to remember the bigger picture, but I'm really struggling tonight.

Me 34 W 32
D 9 S 6
M: 9 years
T: 12
Bomb: 02/11/12
EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing
Moved out: Oct 2012
Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13

Don't just GAL, find yourself and be happy