Oops, I wrote "True, I respect my side of the vow, but let's not forget that the vow applies to both sides..."

I meant "True, I DID NOT respect my side of the vow..."

M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112