That very paradox has me confused, jks. Upon leaving our consultation with the Dr. she was instructed to contact his office "when her next cycle begins". Well, I know that is not too, too far off.
Somewhere between now and then the conversation about what her plans are with the D needs to occur. I can't bring it up right now because it would be viewed as "pressuring". I remain hopeful that she will conclude that she needs to withdraw the petition - but who knows. My gut tells me that she will, but to date nothing to indicate that will happen has been said or done.
That said, there is no way I can move forward with IVF and D at the same time. I think she knows that.
