We have a court date May 2, and its my understanding that this is when the temp support will be put into place...ill have to ask my attorney... He is paying me a little support, no were near what the state requires and between what I make and what he gives me we have just enough to pay rent, utilities and minimal groceries and then Im broke until the next time he gives me money...
My L heard from his L last week and was told they are putting together a "purposal" for us to look at before the court date...this is after he sat with my L twice and we hashed everything out, he said it looked good and then refused to sign. I then came back with a lower offer of support and he again told me that was more "reasonable" (it was half what the state guidline was for my spousal) and ...you guessed it...refused to sign AGAIN and then got his own L. All this back and forth ran my L bill up quite a bit (he had agreed to help pay the bill until he got his own, changed his mind on that to) and we ended up getting nothing out of all of it. and the whole time he was telling me how he didnt want to make this difficult, if I would JUST be reasonable.... Im hopeing it ends up that he pays what the state requires AND the L fees he ran up...that will put a little skip in my walk!!!
Me:48 H:42 M: 18 yrs. S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H D bomb: 9/9/11 OW confirmed 10/30/11 D papers filed 11/01/11 S15 S21(Special needs) S28
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