Then don't let her push your buttons. Take a deep breath and tell yourself you won't react to everything she does or says. There is no need.

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I guess what bothered me so much was is that she "should" know its going to be so difficult for our kids and is going to ruin us financially.
What makes you think she doesn't know this?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss