BTW, I also recommend talking to a Divorce Busting telephone coach on this site. I worked with Cheryl and she really helped me more than IC or MC. I was very skeptical at first but it is money well spent. It's not cheap, but it's a lot cheaper than a divorce.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015